Top Three Tips to Succeed

Life will not be like a bed of roses. There is a need for you to take some needed steps in order to succeed in every endeavor. People are doing so many attempts in order to achieve success in their life, however, because of misguided path when they're growing up and lack on focus to their goals, they've eventually fail.It leads to stopping of attempts and being disappointed, so its failure.

• Firstly, successful individuals achieve life's own goals by being responsible to their actions as well as consequences too. You shouldn't blame anyone, or even to become frightened of facing problems due to your faults. Be responsible enough of your own decisions, the need to consider the options, but never delay in making the decisions. To wait for the perfect time is such a stupid attitude. There's no such thing as perfect timing. You need to begin with your own actions and you'll be able to do the needed correction when you're moving now. Furthermore, to own your faults and be responsible can enhance your self esteem.
  
• Second, a very significant weapon in order to succeed will be to keep focusing for your goals and do it consistently. We are now facing so many challenges or obstacles in life but it must not discourage to continue on focusing for your aims or goals. Until that dream becomes reality, you must keep on envisioning for it. When one of your attempts fail, it might be because of the mistakes you've committed when  you executed the plan and/or something is wrong in that plan. There is a need to execute a truthful evaluation and to know the reasons behind that failure. When you already understand the reason, you must do some corrective actions in order to succeed.
• Third, the need to know the strengths as well as weaknesses. When you are doing honest evaluation, you'll most likely to find yourself on focusing more on the activities by which you're so strong.   You might have that tendency on stopping the activities by which you're not so comfortable. By which you really should avoid it. When you're taking steps for the reinforcement of your own strengths, there's a need to act on becoming strong to the areas which you're really weak.

 Here are just some of the steps to take. These are some of the many others that must be done to succeed in your life's dreams, goals or aims. There's a need to make the start that you really should decide. The success leaders says that you must: Dare on dreaming. There's a need to be very courageous, even if its only a dream on success paths. So, there's a need to gather plenty of courage in dreaming on success as well as working on it.

Ordinary VS. Successful Man

Would you like to become successful? Then if you like, just read on, this article will be the right choice. You will be understanding the difference of an ordinary and a successful person. The article might be able to enhance your type of life as well as move towards your goals, what principle you'll be following here.

There are so many ordinary type of person who decide and keep on making wrong type of choices. They keep on becoming lazy. Deciding on watching TV rather than to work hard. Just eat rather than to go for some physical exercise. Working on something they really hate rather than to make the choices to stop and begin  their own self ventures or to search on another work. So you will now understand that life will be about our own decisions.

You will be the one responsible so that you'll become successful in life. You will be the one to control your future. Many ordinary people choose to quit on listening to their parent's advices and just do whatever they like. Those who wanted excellent futures in life keeps on following good suggestions or advices from their relatives, love ones or parents. A successful person are making choices and they decide on doing something to enhance their type of life. Will you do that?

 So why does a successful type of person become successful? Because of the choices they've made in life. It will be through your choices in life which makes the destiny shaped after some time or in your future, many successful person would agree to this. Keep on making right choices and/or decisions. When you do the correct choice, sooner or later you'll be taking the correct actions which helps on producing correct results, then, get the goal you dreamed of.

Tips On How To Become A Happy Person

Live a simple lifestyle

• Singing with family and friends on a Karaoke bar or in your own house.
• Arrange your room with your family on a weekly basis.
• Play mind games often, it helps.
• Decorate the Christmas Tree with loved ones.
• Go to Church often, for peace of mind
• Listen to  your favorite music.
• Pray for yourself, loved ones and of course to talk to Him :)
• Eat in your favorite restaurant with a loved one.

Be thankful for who you are - appreciating yourself helps in enjoying the good things that come your way. People tend to overlook the small things that is around them, like:

• Waking up everyday feeling active, healthy and enthusiastic because there are about a million people who died everyday. 
• Eating with  your family for breakfast because there are only a few people who regularly eats with their family. 
• If you've got food on your table and clothings to wear on your body for home, school and work purposes. There are only 25-30% globally speaking who can buy a clothe. 
• Can you read a newspaper, book or magazine? Then you're better than billion of people who are identified as illiterates.
• Do you withdraw money in an atm machine for buying of snacks, furnitures and luxurious garments, then you're classified in the 10% of people who have stable income for their daily expenditures.

Building a close affinity with other people - it's always nice to become a friend to somebody, help them in their needs, and chat or communicate with anything to talk to.

How To Achieve Success

Last November 25 it's full moon and I really love looking at this beautiful view of God's creation. My niece once said "the moon keeps on following our car auntie"

We are attracted by the beauty of the moon not because the light keeps on following us. "Jim Rohn quote tells us that like the moon, our success can be achieved through the goodness or how people is attracted on our personality and not how we pursue or keep on following it, like what my niece told me "the moon follows auntie" :) 

My Heart Beats Through Eternal Life

Our life is only borrowed from God our Father and there is a certain time frame for your candle of life, which no longer lights up. Therefore we need to give enough importance to ourselves and our loved ones while we are still alive.

Calmness enveloped us if Jesus Christ lives in our minds and hearts. Old people tells us that: "Time Goes By" so its only appropriate to give everything we've got to enjoy our life. But its wrong, because time never goes by "we do" Old or Young, Fat or Thin  we are only passing by this Earth but we have the hope or faith of the promised "Eternal Happiness"

Loving Without Any Expectations

"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life." Jn 3:16

If God loves us so much that He gave us His begotten son, it’s only appropriate that we give back in return. It’s natural for us people to help and love other people. It’s already etched deep in our hearts and in our character. The philosophy behind this is, as people we cannot be considered whole if you don’t take good care of your neighbor. As person we serve for different motives, it can be for blessings, it can also be for the things that you like when you serve and it can also be due to sacrifice. There’s one action but for different reasons.

Every year there’s a feast of the Black Nazarene taking place in Quiapo, a great number of people are seen in the streets of Hidalgo, Arroceros, to Quirino Grandstand due to different causes or reasons behind it. But for our family, we give bottled waters for this people who dragging the carriage of the Black Nazarene that came from the Quirino Grandstand going back to the church of Quiapo, this people are walking barefooted, very thirsty and very tired due to the whole day walk. It can be said that our action is just a little deed of kindness compared to those people who walk from Quirino Grandstand  but our contribution gave us so much happiness and comfort or relief for this people who drag the Nazarene, because after this contribution no words can express our happiness. Our Lord Jesus Christ likes when we give our hearts and not expecting in return. Whether you believe it or not this sharing of our blessings to these very exhausted, thirsty and barefooted people really helps us to increase our faith and our job. Abundance of blessings are received after this feast. 

Mark 12:41-44 "He sat down opposite the treasury and watched the people putting money into the treasury, and many of the rich put in a great deal. A poor widow came and put in two small coins, the equivalent of a penny. Then he called his disciples and said to them, 'In truth I tell you, this poor widow has put more in than all who have contributed to the treasury; for they have all put in money they could spare, but she in her poverty has put in everything she possessed, all she had to live on."

Successful Business Tips

There was once a scholar that says, in order to become successful in a business interview, the attention you're giving a person you're speaking with is really important. There's nothing as flattering when you're attentive to the speaker. It's really self-evident, you will not need going for an exclusive or high-paying school in order to know this.

But, observing the businessmen, merchants or salespeople, they love to rent such expensive rental space, buying cheap yet not quality products, spend so much for their advertisers and to hire a clerk which is not excellent in listening, and they will keep on interrupting customers, to contradict and irritate the source of success in their business store, driving away buyers.

• Love the business your running - when you open a company it must be fun to your costumers at any extent. If you love what you do, it really helped in overcoming difficulties. Your employees are motivated in working for you because you love, believe and enjoy what you're doing. In addition, if you love your business it will work well and you won't give up easily.
• You must not get frustrated and be afraid - A quotation says that; "You will never know till you try". It's really true, particularly when business is talk about. When you don't try and you're not taking risks, then they are not aware of what they can accomplish as a businessman. In similar manner, the failure will be the person that doesn't try.
• Accept the constructive type of criticism - If you understand and accept the constructive type of criticism, this is advantageous for you. Accept to look at the constructive type of criticism or chance to change for the better you might overlook. Criticism is good if you look at it positively.
• Be Sympathetic - a very unpleasant person or critic has the tendency to soften up and control themselves if there's someone else who listen to them sympathetically, even if they are so irate like that of a cobra with a poison.
• Be Thoughtful - if you are aspiring as an excellent conversationalist, there's the need to be attentive or thoughtful as a listener. An interesting talk needs an interested person.
• Be Encouraging - ask a question that s/he loves to talk to. Keep talking about his/herself, this person is very interested in his/her life's story than the problems you have or the world which kills people.
• Be Courteous - if you keep on using unpleasant words, there are people who still are showing nice attitude yet their heart is hurt already, a damaged relationship is on. A conversation's quality had been reduced if you're starting on violent critics around you. Keep on the attitude of professionalism.
• Be Considerate - always think of other people before speaking. We are hurting the feelings of others by being insensitive on the way we speak. It's really being thoughtless or inconsiderate.

Try and Try equals Success

Of all the things that you're doing will leave risks, so why don't you just do them even if they reject you.

There's no such thing as rejection always because one may say no and another one will accept your proposal because not all people says yes and no in your offer or proposition. Success comes in our life just keep on trying and trying because if you don't try there's no success too.

What do you mean by trying and trying? Well, do not quit even if you are facing so many challenges. The challenges might be at home, with finances, foes, friends, your limitations, work. You should always keep on trying and just keep on moving to go on with your life. It will mean that you keep on focusing with life that challenges you. You should develop that habit which stays on track. There are a lot of years now which keeps on going in track, focus will be on staying at that race, and to keep in the track. There's the origin that you might not be so fast like the other people within this life's race, however you need to keep on trying, never ever quit. You need on developing the habit to persevere, like the others already said "just keep on staying with this course" To keep your mind active keeps the leg to move along in the life's course too.

You'll be able to find satisfaction when trying, soon there will be joy too at the end. If you try, you'll be feeling good even if you don't or do succeed due to the fact that you already give your best. Satisfaction will be deeply felt, then also personally viewed at your heart. The man with no regret due to the reason of giving all his best. That man can sleep well during the night, then look forward in trying for tomorrow.


Lastly, if it looks as if you cannot go, just look in yourself and challenge to become the best. Be very surprised that you'll find that there's a strength within yourself that you can try and try again. Just like in marine lessons, the attitude that they have is to don't quit on trying or do not ever lose hope. Just keep on trying, trying and trying.

How to Develop Good Habits to Succeed

If you keep on repeating actions in a matter of period, it will be your habit. In accordance to the  Cancer Research in UK health behavior research center and Phillippa Lally on the UCL epidemiology as well as of public health just now, if you keep on repeating an action for sixty six days it will be your habit eventually. The action will be imprinted to your subconscious mind, you'll be doing that automatically. A habit can be bad or good. It will be good if you're cultivating a good habit for some time, then get rid of your bad habit. Here are some of the ways to deal with your "habits"

A.  The Word Power
To affirm will be to repeat a phrase on some words in a continuous manner. To repeat those words, to reprogram your subconscious eventually. A Hindu is calling that mantra, so that they can cultivate some habit they need to do a meditation known as Japa. It will be to repeat some words for some time.
If you will affirm you must do it in words, in a positive manner. You should refrain in using don't and try. You should refrain using this, "I try to be in good health" just rephrase that of "I'm enjoying my health". If we are affirming something that you don't like in life, this become attracted on us due to the reason that your mind will not be aware of how you differentiate that. Its really needed that you'll be very careful if your making an affirmation.

When we're using, try, as word the mind are trying on getting it instead of achieving it. Nobody tries on getting something, a person would like to accomplish in order to reach things. As a sample, an athlete is not attempting to succeed a certain competition, however they're concentrating to win this competition. Keep on avoiding on saying "try" if your affirming.


B. Financial Matters
Money got its spirit. Money will be a very powerful tool here on the globe. If you do not know to properly manage the money, it will finish of having a bad habit like that of using immoral activities, overspending, to gamble and a lot more. If you're a parent you need to teach your child on how they'll save finances ever-since they're small.
To manage money is a very crucial skill that you need to cultivate or learn. A skill on managing money will be to keep a diary of your spending. Every spending you did must be recorded in your diary. Check out the diary right after one or two weeks. It will amazed you to see your spending that aren't unnecessary.


C. Avoid Dealing With Negative Individuals
A negative individual will just influence your mind even without your consciousness. If you're surrounded of people that are so negative, your mind might act with one another without your concern. In your unconscious and subconscious levels, your mind will be rearranged to some kind of negativity. If this will happen, there will be affection in your habit. The habit including laziness, procrastination, lack in pride and a lot more to be prepared. The type of principle will be reversed too or the other way around. If you're surrounded of energetic and positive type of people, similar type of principle in mind will happen and habits that are positive will happen.

Smile To A More Successful Life

The facial outlook brought about by smiling gives you a plus in your personality.When you successfully make a non-verbal communication through an eye interaction, then you must smile. You will be sending a message of being a happy type of individual; you’re approachable, self confident, and also friendly. When you as a person do not smile while making an eye interaction, you are sending a message of being aloof, cold and critical.

There is no one who likes a gloomy type of person all the time. So being a smiling self confident type of person it will give you excellent advantages to lots of people that you meet as well as know. A person like seeing him/herself looking good physically. And it’s a truth. Even if a person likes to show off the great importance in his/her character, there is no denying that his/her physical appearance really matters too. You really would like to look good too. It might be because of the self confidence given or due to the good treatment of people when you’re looking good.

Sometimes if you’re not sure of their reactions you might be scared, however, what will be the unfortunate thing that might occur? The person your smiling might be looking away, rather than to return their smile. You’re already rejected. However, rejection will not be the most unfortunate thing that might happen. It will be when you try connecting with that individual who will become your ideal mate.

Our intentions come across as signals we’re sending. If the intention will be to transmit messages, which is obviously sexual instead of the one who says that, You’re an individual that I really like to get in touch of, s/he might tell that you’re smile is like a sneer. But if you are smiling and it meant on acknowledging that the both of you, the one you’re smiling on are travelers within the journey in life, perhaps its time that both of your path needs to meet, maybe its really time that your journey needs to meet, the smile can be distinguished as very friendly.

The virtue of a person is truly becoming very important, but it’s really not wrong that you want to become good looking. It’s really alright if you’d like having that great smiling appearance that gives you self confidence, it helps you in succeeding in your daily endeavors.

How to Deal With Failure

Failure Needs To Be Your Companion

Any person doesn't like failure, however, a secret in order to succeed will not be in avoiding, instead you embrace it...From the achievers point of view, they already learned that failures are the seeds which sprouts so many valuable type of lessons when applied can guide you to success. It is a fact in spite of the station you've got in your life now.

The truth is, unless you've seen failure become a friend, success cannot be reach within the greatest potential. But to the contrary, if you're seeking in order to do most from your own mistakes, apply the lessons it offer, you'll be starting once more to go up towards the high summit that you dreamed on conquering.

Might as well look on the steps, and then determine if they're become part in the efforts in order to make failure as a friend:

1. Adjust at the zone of your failure - there's a need to classify failure of tasks from failures being a man or human. Never consider yourself as a failure due to the reason of failing in a single area, you won't become a complete failure forever. Why? Due to the fact that it might result to loss on self confidence or depression, which is really out in proportion with the circumstance.
2. You need to know where you've been wrong at this time of your life - somehow, there are people who doesn't like facing truth by themselves alone, however, it really hurts to face truth after sometime, it will only through by confronting the truth yourself that you'll be able to learn in getting up once more. 

•  Take a look on yourself unbiasedly. It would mean, being bias free or  without inclinations. It means to take hard, long look within yourself. But then again, so many individuals will be there yet they will be having a hard time to face themselves. 
• For example, the sorrowful wife who blames everything to her own husband with the happenings of the failure in marriage, however, just imagine his wife being so much nagger, she keeps on losing temper when her husband doesn't give what she likes as of the moment, will that be a very fair type of solution in order to make a nice marriage with the two of you, husband and wife?!

      3. You need to change the attitude of yourself when it comes to failure, then you'll be able to change the    ideas concerning failure.

        

         You should not really fear failure. Its difference within mediocrity and greatness will be based through your own mistakes or your errors. You shouldn't look at failure being a failure instead its a chance in doing those things respectively: 

• Refuse mediocrity
• Enhance your being very humorous 
• Raise your anticipations.
• Make a group with optimistic individuals.
• Evaluate your own skills.
• Do varied type of strategies.
• Throw away those impossible ideas.

    4. Prepare yourself with a strategy when it comes to failure

         Do not anticipate that you'll be failing, however, try foreseeing what will be the action whenever failure comes at hand. "You shouldn't waste your energy to try covering up downfall," as told by noted executive. "You must learn in your own failures, then just go for the challenges you'll face. It will be fine if you fail. A person who doesn't fail, will not grow.

    5. Search for an excellent option

        Are you doing not so well when your selling real estate as the technique in making you wealthy, then maybe there will be something that you'll be able to sell, which might help in reaching your possible wealth later on quickly. When you are in the situation that you are constantly feeling that you're constantly in a depressed state, you might as well consider different types of style in achieving your aims. 

Our Human Mind and to Succeed in Life

There are so many questions that pertains to the human mind, like its complexities, its usefulness, decisions of our mind and usage of today's technology, etc... Are you comparing the power of your mind from the different mechanical devices like a personal computer? A lot of skilled individuals will be able to create those complicated type of machines, however, they can't build something as powerful as their mind can do.There are so many articles that are written as well as studied pertaining to our mind, yet the truth still remains, it will still possess a very unlimited power to store and use various data that is available today.

Our mind will be the only source of thinking power for us humans. The usage of your mind now will determine how you'll be in the future. It's because your mind resembles to a kitchen sponge. It's absorbing all things that submerges itself. Just like an old proverb, "as a man thinketh, so is he" it applies up to now. When you are a positive thinker, you will develop positive type of personality. When you are a negative thinker, you will develop negative type of personality. When your mind keeps on filling up empowering ideas and thoughts, same is true to your personality.

Acquire Knowledge In Order To Effectively Live A Good Life

Learning will be your key for life's progress. Your progress in learning, because of the expansion in knowledge. If your opening the mind for newer ideas, you'll be Growing. Growing in social, emotional, mental, spiritual aspects and a lot more.

A long time ago there's a famous university who conduct a convention about aging. Amidst the discussed topics are the route that society classified the old age citizens being the passive and impotent. There's a guest panelist who speaks a great idea: whenever a senior citizen is classified as the one who grows old, isn't it right that the society should concentrate with this word "growing"? By way of explanation, our life coming from our birth until death will be a process of growing which involves studying for all time.

Success  will be the condition of your mind - and particularly, the affirmative condition of your mind. All things that you must do in order to attain your goals in life will involve learning. Because learning had been focused to the human mind you must constantly experience and learn newer things which will help in attaining your goal in life.

There's a logger who's story been told, he keeps on cutting the trees, he found it very hard to cut every trunk. Just in time, someone passes by and ask him what's the reason of his difficulty in cutting those trunks. The logger just look at the person puzzled, the person told the logger: "you cannot keep on cutting,  you must sharpen your saw.

If you like to become successful and be very progressive, its necessary to workout your mental saw often and don't just keep on cutting your way in life.

There Are Situations That Might Lead You To Other Things

While our own world might become very dull, it seems that people will look at life fascinatingly, then they will ask "How will their own life now become sweet?" Now there's something to found out, how will I make a beginning, on somewhere. With a small beginning it leads to something and then another again.

The one who who gives up, nothing is achieved. There are times that we might make mistakes, to become so selective. The time that we can reject offers of jobs because of the reason: "This is not a job that i really like." If this is all that you really got, grab it, master, and then watch later on because it will lead you to success later on. When you've got nothing very big as of the moment then, you need to begin small. Try and try first because we start small then you can work on the things you love doing....

Give your best shot on whatsoever will be head-on, then the chance will start to  discover you. It will be called discovering your own reputation. It can lead to success because you do not stop trying.

The word self-discipline can be the started during childhood, and be carried on through our life's day to day practices, it can make everything really different. Our life can be an exchange in between the instant long term rewards as well as the pleasures too. A man who is not practicing discipline since childhood like going to church for respect of God, respecting people by keeping promises, apologizing when having mistakes, and practicing humility will eventually fail

Our small things of self -discipline - to study instead of television - leading to the bigger things - for a better qualification. When you are disciplined on something small then it will lead you to something bigger, on a successful life.

Lessons in Failure

Not everything that looks good in our eyes are also good to other people. We all have different opinions. So don't lose hope if your idea that seems so interesting to your family will not be appealing to someone else outside. Somehow one person will reject that proposal and some will not.

It's normal to be rejected. A person who eats something for the first time will reject the contents but eventually accept it, same is true with our ideas, never lose hope to let people accept them eventually, because acceptance and rejection will always be part of our lives.

Trying should always be done, because its only in trying that you will know if you'll be accepted or rejected.

How will you let people like YOU control the life you once dreamed of, with just their saying NO to YOU.

When you need some people for the success of the business your managing, will you simply be discouraged because of their rejection? No one succeed sitting down and doing nothing.

A very big mistake that you'll make is to continually fear the rejection.

If you don't resist you'll eventually desist and go down forever. Trying and then be rejected is not a sin. It's a sin if you don't try.

You'll eventually got some experience with rejections. Because afterwards you will understand how to be accepted. Everything will entail risks so why don't you just keep on trying?

It's not the rejection that keeps on hurting you, its only your thoughts. Many lives has been wasted because of the thought of rejections, it keeps on haunting them. When you can choose to be accepted will be the only key.

How to Look At Downfall With A Happy Expression

Friendship Should be Start With Failure

Failure will be a person's way in order to improve themselves, its their secret for success, you shouldn't avoid it but instead embrace downfall.A person will succeed more if they already learned the big value of downfall  can become an importance in their life. Its true even-though their lifestyle is not good.

          Its the truth, when you really can take a look on downfall in becoming your own friend, no one cannot be able to reach their own achievements for success. On some point of view, if your looking in order to accomplish that out your own mistakes, you'll start in climbing on the dreams for your to take over.

          Just search on the similar direction below and you'll determine if you will be taking on another part for the effort to make downfall as a friend:

1. Direct onto a point of the place of downfall - There's the need to stand between on the assigned job from downfall being a man or person. Never ever imagine yourself that once failure comes, you'll be a downfall for life. It's due to the reason that it might become a guide to depression as well as loss on self confidence. There's a need of keeping downfall to its appropriate perspective.
2. You need to discover where you're wrong - People sometimes doesn't like to confront truthfulness because sometimes its very hard for them, when you face truth you'll be able to learn and stand again. You have to appear objectively. It means that the person is free on prejudice or biases. In becoming objective signifies you to see hard and long with yourself. So many human beings are having difficulty outside, they keep on looking at their world or with their close relatives rather than to look on their own faults.
3. Your attitude on failure needs to be modified, then the idea will be changed afterward - There's no such thing when it comes to failure. We can only differ ourselves second-rate or great because on reality we view our errors and mistakes on how we change our attitudes. 

• Refuse being second-rate
• You need to change your self-humor
• Form a team with some group
• Create different strategies 

5 Ways to Reduce Impatience

Home is where the heart is, which I've heared from a music. A family can be anybody  with close affinity to us. My cousin lives in our house, she's presently a 4th year  college student taking up Bachelor of Science in Business Administration major in  Human Resource Development Management at Polytechnic University of the Philippines.

We have so much difference from one another like I love talking while she is contented in one corner and tend to be serious with things. I love reading English books or online articles, she loves reading Tagalog novels. I love to analyze things or observe first while she is impulsive. I do things out of my initiatitive while you need to ask her first. I think of people's  problem and solution, she thinks of being problematic with no solution. I'm a sweet person while she is somehow cold.  Those are some of our differences.

We tend to quarrel with some petty things when where hot headed, oh by the way we're both impatient. If you're impatient to someone else, your closeness will distance a bit. Impatience doesn't concern the person you're being impatient to. This feeling of impatience got everything with how you're carrying the person's attitude or behaviour to you. Feeling of impatience really is a harmful habit, negative, and you'll be able to free that feeling if you're ready to become patient. Impatience tends to close the doors of our hearts. Here are the 5 ways to open up the heart:

1. Hear the person's plea - when you are feeling impatient, you don't seem to hear anything but your say to what you think is right. There's a need to hear the other person's  plea in order to solve the problem.

2. Enter the person's world - be adaptable enough to see the other person's point of view. According to an article I've read "Impatience came from your belief" Because your mind tells you to believe that you need to be impatient. So there's a need for you to believe the opposite, be patient! :)

3. Antidote for negative emotions - i love science so "negative polarity plus negative polarity equals positive" the antidote for a negative emotion like impatience is to relax,  overcome the feeling by patience, just observe the feeling and never blame anyone for your impatience.

4. Reaffirm the positive - impatience is a negative feeling so there's the need for the positive energy which is patience for you to overcome. When you deal with hard times sometimes you feel uncertain and helpless. Its best if you use your mind's power in keeping yourself going. The positive reaffirmation.

5. Try and try and try once more - there's no harm in trying, right? Living patiently is a virtue that a person inculculate in one's life. So if you would like to get something, "try, try and try once more" until you get what you've been waiting for. Problems have solutions but solutions is not so easy as it seems when you say it. "Actions speaks more than words"

Impatience is only a feeling, believe that you can change your mindset when it starts lurking in your system and the patience is out of your control. Carry on the positive and not the negative because it will just give you stress. Open up your HEART

How to Respond with Stress

How you handle stress is on how you handle it. Troubles will remain to be troubles unless you give a solution. People comes in frowning, sad, angry, insensitive and apathetic sometimes when frustrations, worries and resentments comes in their lives. Thus results to their life's troubles. 

Just for example, seeing yourself in an airplane and then the engine suddenly becomes crazy. What would you do if your pilot suddenly say "Oh my God, our plane will crush, our plane will crush!" or just the other way around being super optimistic "We will be save, our plane will just be fine!"

Just thinking of the day to day lifestyle that you have. Will you choose the first pilot that keeps on saying negative? or Mr. Save our Lives part?! "Then the one who gives the choice of optimistic decisions will be fine. It probably won't offer any guarantee but it will give you the best opportunity to feel somewhat good.

People who keeps on losing are those who think of the impossible things till everything they view in life are impossible. The optimistic person keeps on thinking the possible things. While focusing on all possibilities, this person make all things possible too.

"Be happy" You ought to be happy with your life, there's only one and we cannot borrow one more again. But, how do you define being happy?! For me it does not mean "to only smile, laugh or joke around" It means be free of stress, live your life just the way your like it to be. 

My cousin once told me "Your lucky enough to live one more day, so give yourself a chance to become happy and live for you and love ones as well for God's glory too."

Being Optimistic in Life

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" well, I really love this quote because it's my favorite.

I agree with the meaning it portrays that beauty can't be judged alone by merely looking at the physical features or aspects of a person. Who can tell that a crab-like handed person can became a designer? It's because being optimistic in life is one of their feature. No one should only look at the physical attributes of a person, because all attributes are God's given gift. 

The word God is contained in the word good. When good is done, God is present and when God is present, miracles happen. The presence of miracles just like the air in the sky, flowers in a plant, rain after the sun. Nobody can imagine how unfathomable God's creation and is true with us, the people. 

Who would have thought that I'll be able to chitchat with someone I've never known before heheheh. Ms. Renzell Antonette Braga, I find her like a 3 n 1 coffee, it's complete of all the ingredients. What's the connection? ;) Ms. Braga well is completed with love from her family, humor that is so much appealing you cannot live without as her friend, an optimist, and her religious devotion that I always smile because of the lesson learned from her. 

We've got strengths but as for her its her being family oriented, friendly, being able to laugh humorously at herself or being so happy and of course motivated to strive hard for success. Success  will be the condition of your mind - and particularly, the affirmative condition of your mind. All things that you must do in order to attain your goals in life will involve learning. Because learning to become optimistic had been focused to the human mind you must constantly experience and learn newer things which will help in attaining your goal in life. If you really want something, then you must have the courage to say "I'll do it!" Never say, "I'll try."

If you like to become successful and be very progressive, its necessary to workout your mental saw often. And obviously with God always in your mind and heart :)

How To Stop Your Fear Of Public Speaking

Communication is the source of better human relationships.

How much laughter, happiness, and good memories would you like to store forever, so as to have an  excellent type of lifestyle? Of course, you will get that through good communication. Just imagine, families have good understanding, friend don’t need to quarrel frequently due to less communication and business associates having a nice talk with each one’s point of view.  

Communication are needed by everyone, so why don’t you stop that fear of speaking publicly or in groups?! Here are some of the tips:

1.      Refrain from being at ease all the time and might as well do things at the front of many people –  I just thought that its best that you go to a bar and sing in their karaoke machine. It’s better if you’re going to the bar alone, in that process you’ll be making yourself fool but these people don’t even know you. It’s an excellent exercise because reality wise you do not even do that. I intend to say that you’ll never be able to see that bunch of people once more! Yet you’re able to do it. You’ll never be able to see those people in that bar once more so what’s the matter! That should be the mind  frame necessary for you to begin with.

2.      Alter your way of thinking and you must not keep on worrying about the thoughts of people around  you – a person will never be an excellent speaker when he or she is always worried more or less on other people’s thinking. Step out of your negative thoughts and might as well give the best you can.

How To Improve Your Mediocre Lifestyle

I came from a not so wealthy family but not so deprived of everything or very poor. We are happy in spite of the loss of my beloved father when I was only 6 years old. My mother instill in our young minds that for self improvement education alone is the only inheritance we can get from them and can be pass on to our children. It can never be stolen; it can only be shared or given.

During my childhood days I still reminisce the times when me, mom and my brother would share stories every weekend. The stories we talk about, to improve our communication and written skills, are found in the books purchased by mom for the two of us. These stories should have something to be learned from, we really find this fun, amusing and a touching experience aside from the fact that we enjoy talking with each other. My family and I was able to learn from each others point of view.

When life gives you so many things to feel hurt, what will you do? Spend some time alone mesmerizing all the happy memories. Read a book to improve yourself, pray for spiritual guidance. In every corner of your household when bringing back the memories of yesterday.

Looking back to the years when I go to school, it was not such a bad but not all good experience. I love learning new things, discovering, exploring anything that caught my curiosity especially with computers, and medically related stuffs in terms of books but also hands-on experience for the pc. 

I’ve got new friends, dealt with my teachers, classmates and everyone whom I socialize inside the school. Library was the favorite spot that gives me tranquility or peace inside out as well as improvement to develop myself. But then, everyone has its own fate. Not everything that is good all throughout will turn out just fine. The decision is really hard to let go of my studies due to a problem but then I leave it to fate again when time comes I’ll have a good ending. If only I can finish, I will still continue what I started and it will be for excellence.

Nowadays there are lots of youth  who tend to shrug off their shoulders when you’ll bring up the talk about excellence, studying or succeeding in life. There are few individuals who would like to burn the midnight oil these modern days. Why not?! Why do you need to sleep at the middle of the night or crack of dawn just to review for examinations, researches for all your homework, classroom reporting that gives you a stage fright or a nervous breakdown?! It will just give you a very difficult time, isn’t it? 

One of my classmate told me, you know having a grade of satisfactory or pass is more than enough for me. Besides I’m not a student who aspires for the honor roll, I don’t need to maintain my grades in the top level. All I want is too pass. Look at you who strives so hard to get an excellent grade, you're such weird looking already. I’m not making my life so difficult for me, why should I? That is our conversation.

To be honest, I myself would like to have a break of studying, who wouldn’t, right? We are so contented of ourselves with only passing every subject that we have in our school instead of being recognized as a smart ass. We tend to have the attitude that settles for a route which is less complicated, the one that doesn’t need hard work or instant luck for example winning the lottery.

It’s a fact everything is just passing by, even our younger years will not go back, and our studies in College days are the same in this perspective. Our opportunity will come only once too, it will never knock twice. 

You would like to be called as cool? You keep on going to movie premiers instead of going to classroom discussions and listen to your teachers. Be reminded of the saying: "Study first before pleasure." Yet it's still your choice yourself and to tell those who love studying; I am very cool right now, you who keeps on studying just make it too hard for yourself. Just go to department stores for shopping, go to party with friends, listen to the live concerts rather than the musicals in your humanities class project, but what will future lead you when those un-cool guys savor such excellent jobs with their nice paychecks on a monthly basis after the graduation times comes in?

When you strive to excel in your class, it's never a bad option to take; it will only need perseverance, effort, as well as hard work. Always remind yourself of the good rewards that hard work on studies will give you in the future. And besides it is hard to get a job when your not licensed graduate student of any course. Chances will be, you and your family will suffer in poverty when time comes. A life in poverty is not so cool, you might not even go to movie premier because even a single bread you cannot afford.

The choices we made along the way in reaching a successful lifestyle should always be for the goodness of others. The future marked upon us or the youth of today. We as the youth are the hope of the future when the leading industries depend on us. But if your choices had been very weak due to carelessness, educational training grounds then what lies for the future?

You need to stand out, be Brilliant or Be Unique. You will never be a defect in a society when you excel because you are unique from them! This society we live are in need of someone who has an ideological idealism, those whose principles can never be broken even by storm or fire, they stand by it. Adopting that principle of mediocrity will give your life a very defective lifestyle; education should embrace uniqueness in everyone.

How Do Rich People Reach Success?

According to Arnold Schweitzer "Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful." We shouldn't pursue riches, but instead pursue happiness. To laugh, being positive and to keep on smiling - its necessary to succeed. 

Your Happiness, Your Success

I'm not saying that becoming idle leads to success, because as a student or an employee you also need to devote some time finding happiness for yourself. In accordance to a research done by Shawn Achor, "happiness could be the key to greater productivity and results within the workplace."

There's a soon to be accountant named Rebecca, she's a happy, and driven oriented person. Do you think happiness can help you, in boosting up your morale to success? Because it can. The real question will be, in lieu, how can a person be really happy? Can you really change your personality from being distressed to happy by your own will? Well you can. You have the guts to change. For you to become optimistic or positive minded, there's a need for you to vary your view of things.

Utilize Time-Energy for Relationships

People are known to be as a social animal and our relationships became a life-giving force.   As a friend Ecca is a person who really makes everyone feel  nice of themselves. She takes time for her friends and family, setting up family and close friend dates , and mobile conversations. There's nothing that can light up your lives when you communicate with your love ones.

Search Happiness from your Past and Present

Being happy means enjoying what's going on with your current situation. Sometimes we remain with our past and place to much efforts in planning with our future. I just can't believe it Rebecca loves to study and i love her faith in God which gives her the courage to go on and on to any situations in life like her studies or problems too but of course she succeed afterwards with the help of family, friend and faith. Her dreams for herself and of course family can be attained due to her beautiful attitude.

Never Let Someone's "Insistence" Make Your Dream Fade Away  

How often are you discourage because you just allow other people distract you on the things that is necessary for your dream to success?  Leave the days of discouragement behind.  As i remembered Rebecca, the driven-oriented person she is, even with a little distraction keeps on reviewing because there's a need for her due to a departmental exam and so many projects.  Because when you let someone's insistence direct you, success will be hindered. The dreams will be just dreams - so the naysayers must not come in your place.

So emerge and live happily, being successful comes next. :)


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How to Build Your Self Confidence

Confidence refers to take action. People like to try things however they're frightened to reach it, so they're worried to fail. It's perfectly normal because everybody has that fear.

"Be confident!" will be a very important advice you will get in your life and it's really nonsense when you don't act it out.

Building up your self confidence:

1. Stop your habit of complaining - well negative vibes like this, to complain a lot, will never give you a positive mindset because complaining makes you think worst of yourself. 
   
2. Think of assets rather than liabilities - as human there are rooms for errors or liabilities. Your being courageous, compassionate as well as your talent and skill are the assets for a successful you.
   
3. You will not trust people  unless  you first trust yourself - usually a person with low confidence level doesn't trust his or herself. No one will believe you unless you decide to do it first! 
   
4. Face your fears - people with low self confidence levels are usually afraid. To have fear, becomes a factor people needed to confront if one wants to be confident. They are just ghost in our nightmares we must not let them get in our way. Be optimistic and don't permit your fears in getting involved with your chances. 
   


Self confidence is the opposite of inferiority. There's a need for you to believe in yourself, act not only in words alone. Responsibility comes in action of what you  say.