Tips on How to be Happy

1. Curiosity Counts - It's one secret to happiness because will you be happy if you're not doing anything? Curiosity is our way to learning new things. Our life will never be boring, it is dependent on our choices. If you keep learning new things, from your childhood years to the present, there will be Happiness that results due to skills, talents learned throughout your life period. You gain happiness through liking yourself when you learn much from studies in school, reading, listening on books or movies and sounds.
2. Laugh Often - Nobody wants a grouchy person, if  you are so stressed there might be chances of heart or mind problems. Laughing really is a secret to happiness, to like yourself and your family members too, no stress and at ease with life because you are very comfortable.
3.  Sow good deeds and reap good things too - the secret to happiness in our life comes when you do things for other people instead of yourself alone. There are things in our life that we can't explain, only by God alone. Have faith, believe and act what you think will be good for you and your love ones too.

5 Essential Habits to Self-confidence

Is Changing Yourself Possible?

A leopard can do modify their colored spots. They will not need a lifetime just changing themselves. So, how much more to people like us? The advancements in psychotherapy and psychological fields during last twenty or so years became very immense. Nowadays, we'll understand how a personality can be sustained and formed and how to develop quickly the method in enabling a person to change the feelings and behaviour.

How Do We Start Changing?

Here are Some of the Ingredients to a Successful Self-Confidence Change of Habit:

1. Acquire Self Belief - There's a need to believe the possibility to change ourselves. You can go to your school library or a public library and you search on several journals on different therapies and psychology subjects. You may also read on personal women experiences who already overcome issues on confidence building.

2. Search for a Motivation -  It's a must that you want yourself to change. Due to the fact that changing ourselves feels so uneasy for us, people are contented waiting for some crisis before they face that need to change. So, at any means possible, think of the end in your mind, you become confident before anything disastrous comes due to the lack on self confidence. Do it now!

3. Acquire insight - its necessary to understand yourself and your behaviour. It's crucial that you are mindful of your feelings as well as behavior for the development of your personality.

4. Set a realistic goal - be sure that its yours and the goal is realistic. A person who lacks self confidence becomes an expert setting themselves to failure. For example, to tell yourself that: "I already knew it, someone nuts like me cannot possibly have this opportunity". The key in getting this goal will be in balancing "the game in playing safe" and aim very high, its best that you take a small step for a while. On that way, you'll have some chance to succeed and you'll be motivated from the nice feeling it brings.

5. Get a practice - keep spending energy and time to rehearse new self confidence building activities. To become self confident there's a need to develop new abilities, but, it doesn't come with neat package and comes in ready to use. As an example, you can try learning how to speak Spanish. It seems uncomfortable and odd for you but soon you'll be proud of yourself. There's nothing to be ashamed of when you practice in front of a mirror, when bathing in order to keep on practicing the new language. It's good also to rehearse in a camera to have an excellent practice.

Top Three Tips to Succeed

Life will not be like a bed of roses. There is a need for you to take some needed steps in order to succeed in every endeavor. People are doing so many attempts in order to achieve success in their life, however, because of misguided path when they're growing up and lack on focus to their goals, they've eventually fail.It leads to stopping of attempts and being disappointed, so its failure.

• Firstly, successful individuals achieve life's own goals by being responsible to their actions as well as consequences too. You shouldn't blame anyone, or even to become frightened of facing problems due to your faults. Be responsible enough of your own decisions, the need to consider the options, but never delay in making the decisions. To wait for the perfect time is such a stupid attitude. There's no such thing as perfect timing. You need to begin with your own actions and you'll be able to do the needed correction when you're moving now. Furthermore, to own your faults and be responsible can enhance your self esteem.
  
• Second, a very significant weapon in order to succeed will be to keep focusing for your goals and do it consistently. We are now facing so many challenges or obstacles in life but it must not discourage to continue on focusing for your aims or goals. Until that dream becomes reality, you must keep on envisioning for it. When one of your attempts fail, it might be because of the mistakes you've committed when  you executed the plan and/or something is wrong in that plan. There is a need to execute a truthful evaluation and to know the reasons behind that failure. When you already understand the reason, you must do some corrective actions in order to succeed.
• Third, the need to know the strengths as well as weaknesses. When you are doing honest evaluation, you'll most likely to find yourself on focusing more on the activities by which you're so strong.   You might have that tendency on stopping the activities by which you're not so comfortable. By which you really should avoid it. When you're taking steps for the reinforcement of your own strengths, there's a need to act on becoming strong to the areas which you're really weak.

 Here are just some of the steps to take. These are some of the many others that must be done to succeed in your life's dreams, goals or aims. There's a need to make the start that you really should decide. The success leaders says that you must: Dare on dreaming. There's a need to be very courageous, even if its only a dream on success paths. So, there's a need to gather plenty of courage in dreaming on success as well as working on it.

Ordinary VS. Successful Man

Would you like to become successful? Then if you like, just read on, this article will be the right choice. You will be understanding the difference of an ordinary and a successful person. The article might be able to enhance your type of life as well as move towards your goals, what principle you'll be following here.

There are so many ordinary type of person who decide and keep on making wrong type of choices. They keep on becoming lazy. Deciding on watching TV rather than to work hard. Just eat rather than to go for some physical exercise. Working on something they really hate rather than to make the choices to stop and begin  their own self ventures or to search on another work. So you will now understand that life will be about our own decisions.

You will be the one responsible so that you'll become successful in life. You will be the one to control your future. Many ordinary people choose to quit on listening to their parent's advices and just do whatever they like. Those who wanted excellent futures in life keeps on following good suggestions or advices from their relatives, love ones or parents. A successful person are making choices and they decide on doing something to enhance their type of life. Will you do that?

 So why does a successful type of person become successful? Because of the choices they've made in life. It will be through your choices in life which makes the destiny shaped after some time or in your future, many successful person would agree to this. Keep on making right choices and/or decisions. When you do the correct choice, sooner or later you'll be taking the correct actions which helps on producing correct results, then, get the goal you dreamed of.

Tips On How To Become A Happy Person

Live a simple lifestyle

• Singing with family and friends on a Karaoke bar or in your own house.
• Arrange your room with your family on a weekly basis.
• Play mind games often, it helps.
• Decorate the Christmas Tree with loved ones.
• Go to Church often, for peace of mind
• Listen to  your favorite music.
• Pray for yourself, loved ones and of course to talk to Him :)
• Eat in your favorite restaurant with a loved one.

Be thankful for who you are - appreciating yourself helps in enjoying the good things that come your way. People tend to overlook the small things that is around them, like:

• Waking up everyday feeling active, healthy and enthusiastic because there are about a million people who died everyday. 
• Eating with  your family for breakfast because there are only a few people who regularly eats with their family. 
• If you've got food on your table and clothings to wear on your body for home, school and work purposes. There are only 25-30% globally speaking who can buy a clothe. 
• Can you read a newspaper, book or magazine? Then you're better than billion of people who are identified as illiterates.
• Do you withdraw money in an atm machine for buying of snacks, furnitures and luxurious garments, then you're classified in the 10% of people who have stable income for their daily expenditures.

Building a close affinity with other people - it's always nice to become a friend to somebody, help them in their needs, and chat or communicate with anything to talk to.

How To Achieve Success

Last November 25 it's full moon and I really love looking at this beautiful view of God's creation. My niece once said "the moon keeps on following our car auntie"

We are attracted by the beauty of the moon not because the light keeps on following us. "Jim Rohn quote tells us that like the moon, our success can be achieved through the goodness or how people is attracted on our personality and not how we pursue or keep on following it, like what my niece told me "the moon follows auntie" :) 

My Heart Beats Through Eternal Life

Our life is only borrowed from God our Father and there is a certain time frame for your candle of life, which no longer lights up. Therefore we need to give enough importance to ourselves and our loved ones while we are still alive.

Calmness enveloped us if Jesus Christ lives in our minds and hearts. Old people tells us that: "Time Goes By" so its only appropriate to give everything we've got to enjoy our life. But its wrong, because time never goes by "we do" Old or Young, Fat or Thin  we are only passing by this Earth but we have the hope or faith of the promised "Eternal Happiness"

Loving Without Any Expectations

"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life." Jn 3:16

If God loves us so much that He gave us His begotten son, it’s only appropriate that we give back in return. It’s natural for us people to help and love other people. It’s already etched deep in our hearts and in our character. The philosophy behind this is, as people we cannot be considered whole if you don’t take good care of your neighbor. As person we serve for different motives, it can be for blessings, it can also be for the things that you like when you serve and it can also be due to sacrifice. There’s one action but for different reasons.

Every year there’s a feast of the Black Nazarene taking place in Quiapo, a great number of people are seen in the streets of Hidalgo, Arroceros, to Quirino Grandstand due to different causes or reasons behind it. But for our family, we give bottled waters for this people who dragging the carriage of the Black Nazarene that came from the Quirino Grandstand going back to the church of Quiapo, this people are walking barefooted, very thirsty and very tired due to the whole day walk. It can be said that our action is just a little deed of kindness compared to those people who walk from Quirino Grandstand  but our contribution gave us so much happiness and comfort or relief for this people who drag the Nazarene, because after this contribution no words can express our happiness. Our Lord Jesus Christ likes when we give our hearts and not expecting in return. Whether you believe it or not this sharing of our blessings to these very exhausted, thirsty and barefooted people really helps us to increase our faith and our job. Abundance of blessings are received after this feast. 

Mark 12:41-44 "He sat down opposite the treasury and watched the people putting money into the treasury, and many of the rich put in a great deal. A poor widow came and put in two small coins, the equivalent of a penny. Then he called his disciples and said to them, 'In truth I tell you, this poor widow has put more in than all who have contributed to the treasury; for they have all put in money they could spare, but she in her poverty has put in everything she possessed, all she had to live on."

Successful Business Tips

There was once a scholar that says, in order to become successful in a business interview, the attention you're giving a person you're speaking with is really important. There's nothing as flattering when you're attentive to the speaker. It's really self-evident, you will not need going for an exclusive or high-paying school in order to know this.

But, observing the businessmen, merchants or salespeople, they love to rent such expensive rental space, buying cheap yet not quality products, spend so much for their advertisers and to hire a clerk which is not excellent in listening, and they will keep on interrupting customers, to contradict and irritate the source of success in their business store, driving away buyers.

• Love the business your running - when you open a company it must be fun to your costumers at any extent. If you love what you do, it really helped in overcoming difficulties. Your employees are motivated in working for you because you love, believe and enjoy what you're doing. In addition, if you love your business it will work well and you won't give up easily.
• You must not get frustrated and be afraid - A quotation says that; "You will never know till you try". It's really true, particularly when business is talk about. When you don't try and you're not taking risks, then they are not aware of what they can accomplish as a businessman. In similar manner, the failure will be the person that doesn't try.
• Accept the constructive type of criticism - If you understand and accept the constructive type of criticism, this is advantageous for you. Accept to look at the constructive type of criticism or chance to change for the better you might overlook. Criticism is good if you look at it positively.
• Be Sympathetic - a very unpleasant person or critic has the tendency to soften up and control themselves if there's someone else who listen to them sympathetically, even if they are so irate like that of a cobra with a poison.
• Be Thoughtful - if you are aspiring as an excellent conversationalist, there's the need to be attentive or thoughtful as a listener. An interesting talk needs an interested person.
• Be Encouraging - ask a question that s/he loves to talk to. Keep talking about his/herself, this person is very interested in his/her life's story than the problems you have or the world which kills people.
• Be Courteous - if you keep on using unpleasant words, there are people who still are showing nice attitude yet their heart is hurt already, a damaged relationship is on. A conversation's quality had been reduced if you're starting on violent critics around you. Keep on the attitude of professionalism.
• Be Considerate - always think of other people before speaking. We are hurting the feelings of others by being insensitive on the way we speak. It's really being thoughtless or inconsiderate.

Try and Try equals Success

Of all the things that you're doing will leave risks, so why don't you just do them even if they reject you.

There's no such thing as rejection always because one may say no and another one will accept your proposal because not all people says yes and no in your offer or proposition. Success comes in our life just keep on trying and trying because if you don't try there's no success too.

What do you mean by trying and trying? Well, do not quit even if you are facing so many challenges. The challenges might be at home, with finances, foes, friends, your limitations, work. You should always keep on trying and just keep on moving to go on with your life. It will mean that you keep on focusing with life that challenges you. You should develop that habit which stays on track. There are a lot of years now which keeps on going in track, focus will be on staying at that race, and to keep in the track. There's the origin that you might not be so fast like the other people within this life's race, however you need to keep on trying, never ever quit. You need on developing the habit to persevere, like the others already said "just keep on staying with this course" To keep your mind active keeps the leg to move along in the life's course too.

You'll be able to find satisfaction when trying, soon there will be joy too at the end. If you try, you'll be feeling good even if you don't or do succeed due to the fact that you already give your best. Satisfaction will be deeply felt, then also personally viewed at your heart. The man with no regret due to the reason of giving all his best. That man can sleep well during the night, then look forward in trying for tomorrow.


Lastly, if it looks as if you cannot go, just look in yourself and challenge to become the best. Be very surprised that you'll find that there's a strength within yourself that you can try and try again. Just like in marine lessons, the attitude that they have is to don't quit on trying or do not ever lose hope. Just keep on trying, trying and trying.